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Dear Parent,

Have you ever had a day with your child When all you said was" NO", Or" Don't"? By days end, you feel terrible and your child does, too. It sometimes seems a child will misbehave just to make you angry. But, Chances are, He's acting that way because he's little. Expecting a child to behavelike an adult is setting the child up for failure.

Children behave like children. they are often messy, forgetful and noisy. Remember, there's a difference between childlike behavior and misbehavior. Both can be frustrating. Childlike behavior may need to be redirected. (Redirect the child who writes on the wallsby giving him paper or cardboard to draw on.) Misbehavior often requires parentalintervention. (Place the child who's having a tantrum in a quiet, safe area until he can regain his control)

There are steps you can take to promote a happy home environment. Try these positive measures to promote harmony:

.Make curtesy a part of everyday family life. Use" please" and " thank you " in conversation with your child.

.Set a good examples. If you want your child to brush his teeth regulrarly, make sure he sees you brushing after meals.

.Create responsibilites for your child. Even a young child can water plants or feed the cat. Acknowledge that your child has fulfilled his responsibliltes by rewarding him with a sticker, star, or wards of praise. this give your child a sense of self-respect and accomplishment.

.Be specific and demonstrait for the child. " Take out the dish" sound like a simple request.

But the chlild may not be sure where you want him to take it. A little demonstration can insure success for your child.

.Always expect the best of your child. If he disappoints you , discuss it with him, But if he meests or exceeds your expectations, tell him how delighted you are.

.Read articles and books, and talk to teachers to learn what behavior if typical for children of your child's age. When you know which behaviors are typical of your child's age group, your expectations will tend to be more realistic.

.Make rules that encourage your child to do the right thing. For example, making and enforcing the rule that markers may be used only at the kitchen table will prevent your child from drawing on the bedspread with markers.

.Smile and laugh. sometimes a parent feels he needs to be serious to be effective. But a good chukle relieves tension and sets a positive mood.

When family harmony is promoted with methods such as these, a child can feel good about himself.

As a result, he will behave better-and you'll feel better, too!

읽고 나면 "그래 맞아" 라고 할 그런 내용이다. 하지만 다 알고 있다고 해서 실천이 가능한것은 아니다. 때론 나태함으로 때론 귀찮아서 아이의 눈높이에 맞춰 아일 이해 하려 하지 못했던 순간도 있다. 부모로서 아이에게 줄수 있는 가치 있는 선물, 바로 바른 습관과 옳바른 사고를 하며 살아 갈수 있도록 도와 주는 일이 아닐까 다시금 행각해 보게 하는 글이다.

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